Ready For Love with Hilary Silver

#36: Make Your Deepest Desires Your Reality: I’ll Show You How!

In this final episode of 2024, Hilary sets the stage for your most transformative year yet. January 1st isn’t just another day—it’s game day, and you’re stepping into it armed with the mindset and tools to crush your goals. Hilary breaks down her self-centered approach to success, showing how internal growth unlocks the external life you’ve always dreamed of.
 
Episode Highlights:
Ready to ditch the doubt? Hilary’s hourglass method shows you how to turn internal growth into external wins
Stop wishing, start desiring—why tapping into a bigger, more powerful vibration changes everything
Learn how self-inquiry can help you overcome limiting beliefs and expand your identity
Think your brain’s stuck in its ways? Nope. Hilary breaks down neuroplasticity like a boss
Join the Daily Journal Challenge and start manifesting your biggest dreams—because 2025 isn’t waiting for anyone!
 
Episode Breakdown:
[00:00] Introduction
[00:52] Meet Hillary Silver
[01:35] The Self-Centered Approach
[01:56] Visual Representation: The Hourglass
[02:28] Understanding Your Deepest Desires and Internal Focus
[04:06] Growth-Oriented Questions To Ask Yourself
[04:49] How Inner Beliefs Create External Results
[06:02] The Bitter and Magic Pill
[06:44] Your Past Does Not Define You
[09:01] Changing Your Mind and Neuroplasticity
[10:09] The Daily Journal Challenge
 
What could change in your life in just 7 days? Spoiler Alert: Everything! Start the year strong with Hilary’s 7 Days to Self-Centered: The Daily Journal Challenge and enter the new year with unstoppable momentum. Find it at hilarysilver.com/journal. Here’s to making 2025 your best year yet! 🎉

#35: You Are Who You Think You Are

Who do you think you are? No, seriously. Because the truth is, you are exactly who you think you are. The way you see yourself? That’s the reality you’re living. Your thoughts shape everything—what you do, what you achieve, and what you believe is possible (or not)!
 
In this episode, Hilary explains how your self-perception and thought patterns are the biggest factors holding you back or propelling you forward. If you’re stuck in the same old patterns, here's the good news: you’re just running an outdated script—and you’ve got the power to rewrite it.
 
Episode Highlights:
Why your thoughts about yourself determine what you allow yourself to achieve
The “narrative identity” trap: how the stories you tell yourself keep you small
Breaking free from predictability: why comfort is the enemy of growth
How to become a master observer of your thoughts and rewrite your internal script
The simple mindset shifts that unlock your infinite potential
 
Episode Breakdown:
[00:00] Who Do You Think You Are? 
[02:14] How Your Thoughts Shape Your Reality 
[03:06] How to Master Your Mindset
[05:01] Break the Self-Fulfilling Loop!
[07:19] Your Thoughts Are a Choice
[09:49] Go Beyond Your Current Identity 
[11:02] Unlock Your Full Potential 
[12:26] Amanda's Transformation: A Testimonial 
[14:44] Train your brain
[15:15] Challenge Yourself: The 2025 Seven-Day Daily Journal Challenge 
 
Ready to stop living life on autopilot and finally realize your full potential? Let’s go!
 
2025 will wait for no one.
 
If you’re geared up to embrace your best self, you can’t afford to miss out on Hilary’s transformative free video training, “This Changes Everything.” Or get started with The Daily Journal—a 90-day mindset reset with videos and guided visualizations to help you think bigger, dream bolder, and actually make it happen. Grab yours (plus more free tools!) at hilarysilver.com/guides.

#34: Why NOW Is Always the Perfect Time

How many times have you said, “I’ll start after the holidays,” or “I’ll get to it when things slow down?” Waiting for the “perfect time” is just a sneaky way of staying stuck… and Hilary is here to call you out on it! 
 
In this episode, Hilary tackles the excuses we tell ourselves and shows us how to stop sitting on the sidelines of life. With her signature no-BS style, she’s serving up the truth about why now is always the right time to go after what you want, and how investing in yourself is the best gift you’ll ever give.
 
Episode Highlights:
Why the “perfect time” is just a myth, and how it’s costing you more than you think. 
How to ditch the half-hearted resolutions and actually get what you want. 
Four simple (but powerful) questions to help you figure out what’s next for you.
Why investing in yourself pays off now and for years to come. 
Get inspired to invest in your growth and become the version of yourself who gets what they want.  
 
Episode Breakdown:
[00:00] Stop procrastinating. (Seriously!)
[02:10] The cost of sitting on the sidelines and how to get in the game.
[05:10] What’s really holding you back? (Hint: It’s not your schedule.)
[07:05] Breaking the cycle of half-assed goals and wasted time.
[09:00] Why investing in YOU is the smartest move you’ll ever make.
[12:20] Big dreams? Let’s make them happen.
[13:34] Becoming the person who gets things done.
 
Listen now and let Hilary push you off the bench and into the game. Your future self is waiting. Go get it.
 
P.S. If you’re ready to take yourself to the next level, don’t miss Hilary’s free video training, This Changes Everything, or The Daily Journal—a 90-day guided mindset reset with videos and visualizations. Grab them (and free resources!) at hilarysilver.com/guides

#33: Mental Load: Feel More Joy & Drop The Invisible Weight

Episode 33: Mental Load: Feel More Joy & Drop The Invisible Weight
 
Ladies, it's time to ditch the Superwoman cape! Who says you have to be the holiday magic-maker while juggling life like a circus act? In this episode, Hilary Silver pulls back the curtain on the mental load—the invisible, never-ending to-do list that's got you running the household 24/7. And let's be real, the holidays just crank up the chaos. Hilary reveals the truth about why we end up stuck in this exhausting role and how to step back without the guilt trip. With her no-nonsense advice and a wink of tough love, she's here to help you share the load, kick perfectionism to the curb, and finally enjoy that spiked eggnog this season.
 
Episode Highlights:
Hilary dishes on how the planning, remembering, and constant "Wait, did I forget something?" is stealing your peace.
Enough is enough! It’s time to stop being the default manager of everything. Hilary will guide you on how to resign as household CEO without the drama or side-eye.
Hilary’s four-step freedom plan: from rallying the troops at a family meeting to letting others take over (even if it's not done your way), she's making shared responsibilities a reality.
Perfect is so last season! Hilary reveals why embracing "good enough" is the secret to a joyful, stress-free holiday season. Prioritize your own joy and accept that done is better than perfect.
 
Episode Breakdown:
[00:00] Holiday Stress
[00:52] Meet Hilary Silver
[02:03] What is Mental Load?
[05:05] Step 1: Decision to Change
[06:08] Step 2: Internal Boundary
[07:02] Step 3: Communicating Change
[08:04] Step 4: Listing and Delegating Tasks
[12:29] Embracing Good Enough
[14:24] Prioritizing Your Own Joy
 
Ready to reclaim your holidays and actually enjoy them? It's time to spread the responsibilities—and the cheer. Just because you've been the go-to gal doesn't mean you have to keep carrying it all.
Snag Hilary’s free video training, This Changes Everything, at hilarysilver.com/subscribe and make this holiday season truly about YOU.

#32: Awaken Your Feminine Energy for Beauty, Productivity, and Love

Episode 32: Awaken Your Feminine Energy for Beauty, Productivity, and Love
 
Ladies, let’s get real: juggling work, family, and everything in between is no small feat. But does it have to come at the expense of your well-being (and let’s face it, your glow)? In this episode, Hilary gets candid about why living in constant overdrive isn’t the flex we think it is, and how reconnecting with your feminine energy could just be the ultimate life hack! 
 
Episode Highlights:
The secret to looking, feeling, and doing better isn’t another productivity hack. It’s all about embracing your feminine energy to create balance, joy, and a life you actually love.
Why are women exhausted? Hilary talks about the hidden toll of always being in “go mode” and why it’s time to rethink how you show up in life.
Masculine vs. Feminine Energy 101: push vs. flow, doing vs. being—Hilary breaks it all down and explains why both energies have their place.
Hilary outlines six game-changing ways to reconnect with your feminine energy. She shares practical, relatable tips like slowing down, softening your approach, and learning to actually accept help (without the guilt trip).
How does energy affect your relationships? When you lean into your feminine energy, the people around you step up in ways that’ll surprise you.
 
Episode Breakdown:
[00:00] The Overwhelmed Modern Woman
[00:33] Why “Doing It All” Isn’t Sustainable
[01:55] How Feminine Energy Makes Life Easier
[03:45] Understanding Masculine and Feminine Traits
[05:20] The Emotional and Physical Costs of Burnout
[06:00] Hilary’s Journey to Reclaiming Her Feminine Energy
[07:15] Tip #1: Soften Your Approach to Life
[09:10] Tip #2: Slow Down and Savor the Process
[11:30] Tip #3: Get Real About Your Emotions
[13:50] Tip #4: Be Present in Your Body
[15:25] Tip #5: Build Others Up Without Tearing Yourself Down
[17:05] Tip #6: Learn to Receive Without Feeling Weak
[19:30] The Beautiful Balance of Masculine and Feminine Energy
 
Stop being the “do-it-all queen” and start thriving! Now, grab your favorite drink, hit play, and let Hilary show you how to make feminine energy your new superpower.
 
Want More? Get exclusive tools and resources from Hilary to help you lead, love, and live with confidence at hilarysilver.com/subscribe.

#31: Five Rules I Break for Fitness

Episode 31: Five Rules I Break for Fitness
 
Who says you have to follow the rules to get fit? Hilary Silver unapologetically shreds the fitness handbook and proves you don’t need rigid routines to look amazing at 52. Forget arm day, endless cardio, and those boring sit-ups! In this episode, Hilary shares the five fitness rules she proudly ignores (plus the one rule that she never breaks).
 
Episode Highlights:
Break the rules! Fitness isn’t one-size-fits-all. Hilary’s approach to fitness is proof you can break the rules and still get good results. Start trusting yourself to do what works for you.
Cardio? Only if she feels like it. Hilary skips the treadmill grind and only walks or runs when it feels good. Fun fact? Many of Hilary’s podcast episode topics come to her on these walks and runs when she’s moving her body!
Scheduled workouts? Hard pass! Forget those “arm days” and “leg days.” Hilary calls the shots when she hits the gym. She makes sure that she chooses moves that feel right for her body that day.
For abs that turn heads, Hilary swears by twisting core-focused movements that sculpt without the six-pack bulk. 
Heavy weights? Only sometimes. Lifting heavy isn’t a lifestyle for Hilary. She balances strength training with light weights and Tracy Anderson-inspired routines for a toned, feminine look.
Rest days are overrated. Moving every day doesn’t mean burnout; it means listening to your body and switching it up to keep things interesting. Learn how daily movement—on your terms—can keep your mind sharp, your body strong, and your soul happy.
 
Episode Breakdown:
[00:00] Fitness Confusion
[00:42] Why Break the Fitness Rules?
[01:35] Blending Brain Science with the Laws of the Universe
[01:46] Breaking Rule #1: No Cardio Workouts
[03:01] Breaking Rule #2: No Scheduled Workouts
[03:43] Breaking Rule #3: No Sit-Ups
[04:26] Breaking Rule #4: No Heavy Weights Regularly
[06:10] Breaking Rule #5: No Rest Days
[08:05] Hilary’s Self-Centered Approach to Fitness and Life
 
Hilary’s self-centered philosophy is the foundation of her life; not just her fitness. If you want to unlock that mindset for yourself, grab her free mini video training, “This Changes Everything,” at hilarysilver.com/subscribe. 
 
Rewrite your own rules now—hit play and start putting yourself first!

#30: Life on Your Own Terms

Episode 30: Life on Your Own Terms
 
Being self-centered isn’t selfish. It’s the ultimate power move! It’s time to put yourself first in a way that’s empowering, not egotistical. In this episode, Hilary redefines what it means to be self-centered and why it’s the key to living life on your own terms. At 52, she’s thriving in her health, relationships, business—literally every area of her life—and she’s here to show you how you can do it too.
 
Episode Highlights:
Forget the lie that “the world doesn’t revolve around you.” Hilary explains why embracing your role as the center of your world changes everything.
Self-prioritization is survival. Hilary talks about how putting yourself first creates the safety and stability to truly thrive.
Own your stuff! Hilary challenges listeners to take radical responsibility for their lives because when you’re the problem, you’re also the solution.
Enough with the self-sacrifice. Hilary debunks the myth that putting others first makes you “virtuous” and reveals why boundaries and self-respect are non-negotiable.
Success is about how you feel showing up as your most authentic self.
 
Episode Breakdown:
[00:00] Redefining “Self-Centered”  
[00:41] The Five Core Concepts Overview  
[01:47] Prioritizing Your Relationship with Yourself  
[02:08] Authenticity and Living in Alignment  
[02:41] Core Concept 1: You Are the Center of Your Universe  
[03:45] Core Concept 2: You Come First and You Go First  
[05:20] Core Concept 3: You Are Both the Problem and the Solution  
[07:17] Core Concept 4: It’s Not Noble to Be Selfless  
[09:56] Core Concept 5: The Outcome Is Internal  
[12:04] Final Thoughts
 
Don’t wait—hit play, and start living unapologetically self-centered today!
 
Unlock lasting confidence with Hilary’s free, game-changing resources https://hilarysilver.com/guides/ 

#29: Screw Invisible Woman Syndrome. How To Turn Heads Over 50

Episode 29: Don’t Be Invisible Over 50
 
Ladies, forget “fading” with age. Hilary Silver is here to bust that myth wide open and show you how aging can crank up your confidence and magnetism. In this episode, she shuts down “Invisible Woman Syndrome”—a tired idea that women lose their spark over time. At 52, Hilary is thriving! She’s strutting into every room with a presence that demands attention, not for validation, but because she knows exactly who she is.
 
Episode Highlights:
Confidence isn’t about them. It’s all about you! Forget the validation and focus on what you bring to the table. It’s confidence that sticks.
Beauty beyond skin deep, always. True allure? It’s all about knowing your worth from the inside out and embracing every quirk and flaw unapologetically.
Forget the outdated belief that life’s peak is behind you. Hilary’s here to tell you that 50+ is when the fun actually begins—wisdom, realness, and all! Age isn’t a limit; it’s leverage!
Taking care of yourself is self-respect. Hilary shares why treating yourself right isn’t optional if you want to radiate confidence. Prioritize self-care because it’s a reflection of how much you value yourself.
To truly turn heads, you have to be fully there. Hilary breaks down how presence is more than just posture—it’s the energy you bring and the intention behind it.
 
Episode Breakdown:
[00:00] Busting the "Invisible Woman" Myth
[01:25] Redefining Confidence and Aging
[02:28] Turning Heads Starts with Self-Perception
[04:14] Owning Your Worth
[05:50] Authenticity is Your Best Accessory
[06:43] Why Self-Care is Self-Respect
[08:30] Making Your Presence Known
[10:07] Final Thoughts on Confidence at Every Age
 
Start living unapologetically to turn heads wherever you go!
 
Catch Hilary’s free, paradigm-flipping resources for more insights into confidence that lasts: https://hilarysilver.com/guides/ 

#28: 6 Reasons It's Hard To Change And How To Get Unstuck

Episode 28: 6 Reasons Why You’re Stuck
 
If you’ve mastered the “know better” game but somehow can’t crack the code to “do better“, this episode is for you! Hilary digs into the hidden mental blocks that keep you looping back to old habits. Tired of self-help that doesn’t stick?  Get ready to uncover the six secret saboteurs standing between you and real, lasting change.
 
Episode Highlights:
Hilary breaks down three levels of self-awareness that expose why we keep circling back to old patterns.
Blaming external forces? Check. Realizing you’re the common thread? Check. Knowing what to change but still stuck? Triple check.
Hilary dives into six reasons why you’re not seeing results—whether it’s not really wanting change, focusing on behavior instead of mindset, leaning on the wrong support, using the wrong methods, finding comfort in the struggle, or holding on to your past identity.
Hilary’s challenge: Ask yourself the tough questions about what you’re gaining from staying stuck and whether you’re ready to tell a new story.
 
Episode Breakdown:
[00:00] What Makes Change So Hard? 
[00:21] Three Levels of Awareness: Where Do You Stand? 
[02:27] The Six Sticking Points to Real Change
[11:15]  Letting Go of the Old Stories
 
Ditch the excuses, and start rewriting your story today. 
Want more of Hilary’s game-changing tools? Grab her free, paradigm-flipping resources right here: https://hilarysilver.com/guides/ 

#27: Uplevel in 2025

Episode 27: Uplevel in 2025
 
Ready to stop messing around and finally start making big moves in your life? In this episode, Hilary breaks down five power plays that are going to help you get exactly what you want—faster. She’s pulling back the curtain on the mindsets and strategies that have taken her from stuck to unstoppable. Hilary’s got the blueprint to get you where you want to go and in this episode she delivers with no fluff, just real results.
Episode Highlights:
Get clear or get stuck. If you don’t know what you want, how are you going to get it? Hilary explains why clarity is non-negotiable when it comes to manifesting your dreams. Remember, vagueness is the enemy of progress.
Commit to growth or stay stagnant. Growth happens outside your comfort zone—period. Hilary shares a gutsy story about a client who overcame the fear of raising her prices and saw massive success. Get ready to feel inspired to stretch yourself.
Upgrade your identity! If you want to level up, then you’ve got to become the kind of person who lives at that next level. Hilary breaks down why shifting your identity is the secret sauce to success.
 
Episode Breakdown:
[00:00] Leveling up in 2025
[01:07] How to Compress Time and Achieve Goals Faster
[02:21] Personal Story: Big Risks, Big Wins
[02:55] Step 1: Get Clear on What You Want
[03:26] Step 2: Commit to Growth, No Matter What
[04:09] Overcome Fear, Invest in Yourself
[05:24] Step 3: Transform Your Identity
[06:06] Step 4: Find a Growth-Oriented Community
[07:10] Step 5: Get Yourself a Mentor
[08:54] Recap and What’s Coming Next
 
Takeaways:
Your circle matters. No more lone wolf mentality. Surround yourself with people who are going places, because the right community will help you hit your goals faster. Hilary talks about how to find your people.
Get a mentor, skip the struggle! Stop guessing and start growing. Hilary is all about mentorship and why investing in someone who’s been where you want to go is the fastest way to get there.
 
Hilary is about to bring you next-level transformation, and if you're ready to stop talking about it and actually build the life of your dreams—whether it's crushing it in your business, getting the body you want, or having the relationships you deserve—you need to get in on this. Hilary’s live programs and workshops kick off in January, and they’re designed to take you deep into the self-centered way of being that creates real, lasting change. She’s not just talking about it, she’s living proof of it—and she’s teaching it live.
Want in? Head to www.hilarysilver.com/waitlist to be the first to know all the details. Get on the waitlist now for early access and lock in your spot to learn directly from Hilary. If you’re serious about leveling up in all areas of your life, don’t wait—this is where the shift happens.